Top 10 Women’s Fantasies – Part 3

At last!  Here’s #’s 3, 2 and 1  of the Top 10 Women’s Fantasies discussion, based on this article .  ( Click here if you want to see all three parts. ) 


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3.  ** Two can chew **

QUOTE: Most men enjoy being spoiled by two women who fawn over them simultaneously. In the same instance, women also fantasize about having two men all over their bodies. Some wanted a more gentle erotic scene, while the rare few wanted porno-like sex.

This is definitely one of my biggest fantasies.   Some of the best things in life come in pairs.  Shoes, gloves, hands, lips, parents.  Too bad husbands don’t.  Maybe the garage would finally get cleaned out if they did.  ** rubs chin **





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2. ** Strap me on, I’m going in **

QUOTE: By far, one of the most popular fantasies women have is being the man for one night… literally. They would like to act and dress up like a man, and I mean straight down to the penis. That’s right, I’m referring to a strap-on penis.  One woman actually had the opportunity to fulfill her fantasy and took full advantage of her boyfriend’s willingness. “It was absolutely incredible to be able to penetrate a man and feel the empowerment usually associated with being the aggressor.”

Every once in a while I try to imagine what it feels to be a man, especially when I’m working on a love scene that’s from the male’s perspective.  But I find it much more enticing being the dominant one from time to time while still being the lady.   


LIKELIHOOD OF MAKING IT HAPPEN:  I wouldn’t actively try to pursue this fantasy.  However if he was the one interested in trying out a little role reversal … 




1. ** Ooh, my virgin ears **

QUOTE: Although saying “rape fantasy” sounds somewhat unthinkable, that’s exactly what most women call it. They want to play the innocent, naïve, unknowing little girl who gets taken advantage of by the devious, predator-like man. Forcibly pushing her against the wall and “pinning my arms above my head with one hand while the other hand has made its way under my skirt” received nods of approval by all the women in the room. 

I totally understand why this fantasy is number 1.  It could quite possibly be the biggest fantasy of mine simply because it is the only one that can not be truly realized.  I won’t ever be naive and innocent again, and real-life rape is deplorable.  But as a fantasy?  Hot.  HOT!


LIKELIHOOD OF MAKING IT HAPPEN: Let me just say that naughty roleplaying can help keep the passion in a marriage alive and strong.  Trust me!  ** winks **

Top 10 Women’s Fantasies – Part 2

At long last, here’s the continuation of my thoughts on#’s 6 through 4 of the top 10 naughty fantasies of women (based on the article Top 10 Women’s Sexual Fantasies) .   Click here to see the first part if you missed it.  



6. ** Sexually ravaged **

QUOTE: Although most women agreed that they fantasize about having a master, their role in the scenario differed. Whereas some women said that they would surrender to their master’s demands, others opposed the idea and said that they would resist and disobey his commands.

“Having him instruct me on how to lick and suck his member or at what pace to ride him will make me orgasm faster than I can say Yes, Master.” On the other hand, […] “It depends. In some fantasies I obey, yet in others I fight him and refuse to do anything he says until he finally ties me to the bed and calms me with his rhythmic penetration.”

Whew, is it hot in here, or is it just me???

I have never, ever had such a naughty fantasy.  Except for every single day.


LIKELIHOOD OF MAKING IT HAPPEN:  Who says I didn’t already?


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5. ** I taw, I taw a putty tat **

QUOTE: Virtually every woman wants or will share her body with another woman. Are you jealous because you get left out? Don’t be, most of these women want their man to watch them while they work… or play, as the case may be.

Virtually every woman does?  Really?  ** raises eyebrows at those stats **  


LIKELIHOOD OF MAKING IT HAPPEN:  *grins* I’m going to plead the fifth on this one.



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4.  ** Leave a good tip **

QUOTE: Keeping in mind that the women interviewed are professionals with commendable careers, some of them fantasized about being strippers, while others took things a step further and imagined being prostitutes. Obviously, the fantasy is romanticized beyond belief because the life of either is not so glamorous that women would opt to have it as a career choice.

 “[…] The gentleman would pick me up in his expensive car and I would ride him in the driver’s seat in some dingy back alley. He would pay me my fee and I’d be on my way.”

Okay, I’ll admit that I used to share this fantasy.  But the older I get the less this sounds like fun to me and more like a dead-end job.  So the fantasy has lost quite a bit of its sizzle.


LIKELIHOOD OF MAKING IT HAPPEN:  1/10 (Hey, in this economy anything’s possible … Just kidding!  Mostly.)






I’ll return soon with the last part of the discussion.  Ta-ta for now!

Top 10 Women’s Fantasies – Part 1

Sometimes I believe that I am truly a deviant.  The way I think, the way I feel.  I especially entertain some of the strangest, rowdiest, deviant fantasies in my head.

Or so I thought.

Stumbling across this old article on the Top 10 Women’s Sexual Fantasies, I discovered that I just may not be that much of an oddball after all.  Apparently, MOST OF YOU LADIES HAVE NAUGHTY, NAUGHTY FANTASIES, TOO!

I’d like to discuss and rate each of these top fantasies in detail, if you don’t mind. Today I’m going to cover numbers 10 through 7.


10. ** Strangers in the night **

QUOTE: “Many women relish the idea of meeting up with a mystery man and going to some no-name motel with him for a wild night of uninhibited sex. Sometimes women feel like the only people they can truly let loose with are strangers simply because they won’t be judged. And who cares anyway? They’ll probably never see the beautiful stranger again.”

I really like the idea of having some spontaneous and unconstrained sex.  A lot.  I personally can’t relate to it having to be with a stranger, though.  I can’t imagine WHAT anyone would want to do in bed that is sooo naughty, they would worry about judgment from their significant other!  Two things come to my mind: 1) either you a very, very bad girl, or 2) you have a very, very conservative partner.   If I really want to go to a hotel and dangle from the ceiling, pretend to be a nun, spread peanut butter all over myself or cuss in 3 different languages, I think I should be able to do that with my husband and not feel ashamed.  


LIKELIHOOD OF MAKING IT HAPPEN:  2/10 (I’m married, but maybe I can get the husband to pretend he doesn’t know me and “meet” me in a bar …)





9. ** The more the merrier **

QUOTE: “Group sex was a popular one among the ladies. ‘The freedom of being nude in front of a bunch of people who are equally exposed, allowing different men and women to touch and penetrate your body simultaneously is incredibly erotic.'”

Confession:  I have this recurring fantasy where I am – let’s see, how can I put this – I am the party favor at some private adult function.  I’d say more on this one, but I’m getting too excited just thinking about it.


LIKELIHOOD OF MAKING IT HAPPEN:  Um, I’d have to check with my husband 😉




8. ** Madam may I? **

QUOTE: “If there’s one thing that women are dying to do, it’s dominate a man like never before. The creative ideas that flowed from this topic were quite interesting, to say the least. They included:

  • spanking him
  • ordering him to perform certain sexual acts
  • making him beg for what he wants
  • having him suck on their stiletto heels or some other phallic object”

What?  Make him beg, you say?  Punish him with your cat-o-nine tails whip when he’s a bad boy?  Blindfold him, cuff him to the bed, gag him and make that strong, masculine man whimper and beg you for mercy?  

Why, yes.  The Verbal Vixen approves.


LIKELIHOOD OF MAKING IT HAPPEN:  Been there, done that, will do it again



7. ** Lay me out on display **

QUOTE: “In today’s world of confident women, I was not surprised to learn that many of them fantasize about having an audience whilst engaging in sexual acts with a partner. I guess the idea of knowing that others are getting excited by their “performance” provides them with a feeling of empowerment.”

Okay, so I fantasize quite a bit about exhibitionism.  Sometimes, it is as tame as me being nude in front of the windows as I clean the house while the neighbors have full view.  Other times, my partner and I are on stage, surrounded by a live audience.  All I’ve got to do is tone those thighs back up first, eh?


LIKELIHOOD OF MAKING IT HAPPEN:  As long as it won’t get captured on video or camera – 7/10 (I can’t allow visual evidence of my debauchery to roam the internet!  Textual evidence, maybe … but not video!)

I’d love to hear what you think of these fantasies.  There’s more to come, this stuff gives me some great ideas for stories! 😉


My five fingers
Over yours
On your hand
On my leg

Your warm palm
On my hips
On my side
On your bed

My moist mouth
And my tongue
On your lips
On your face

Your quick breath
And my breath
They both pant
Our hearts race

Got goose bumps
On my skin
On my thigh
From your touch

The strong vibe
In your eyes
Tell me, you
Want me much

The heat of
Your smooth flesh
Makes my
Temperature hot

You’re rock hard
In my fist
Your voice groans
Please don’t stop

All your clothes
My black dress
Our restraints
Are now undone

Between sheets
You in me
At last we
Become one